[ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]
you have to offer.
Trust your instincts and dare to play the game, fully!
www.vitalcoaching.com
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How to flirt with men
My social circle is limited - How can I meet
new men?
The net works wonders.
I know dozens of people who found their dates on dating sites.
If you have any resistance for going that way, double check it!
Real people! Real lives!
It is exciting because you can get in touch with many interesting
people in no time.
You have great control. If you don't like someone, you just block
them from contacting you. It is easy and direct.
The public place thing (cafe, pub, party, etc) is a good option but
most of the times, you have too little choices and it can go very,
very slow.
With the net you can check people's profiles, get an idea of what
they want and see if you would be a good match.
Nowadays, dating without going online is like living without a cell
phone.
Dating sites do multiply your potential and results by 10 instantly.
Are there any risks online?
Tell you the truth, it is 10 times more risky to sit alone at a cafe
than to be online at home in front of your computer.
The net is safe! It is very safe compared with a public place.
It's like everywhere, you might come across a guy who behaves like
a jerk.
Now, if this happens at a party, this guy will be right in front of you.
On the net, it is much simpler: you delete their message and block
them from contacting you again in the future.
It is simple and direct.
www.vitalcoaching.com
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How to flirt with men
If you didn't try, my advice is: register for a free profile and get a
taste of how it works and how it feels.
There are many places where you can get started. Simply make a
search online for dating sites . I n m ost of these sites, you can post
a profile for free and in some of them, you can even communicate
for free with other members straight away.
There are literally hundreds of them, so do some research and find
an option that you like.
The best is to step in and get familiar with the environment.
After a week or so, if you haven't been contacted, start sending
some light messages, winks, etc.
No need to force it. It happens naturally.
By the way, don t discard the "live options".
Expanding your social circle and going out a lot is great and does
work.
It is good however to try different things and see what works for
you.
Again, the difference between net and live is like the difference
between meeting in person or talking on the phone.
You can decide to meet a friend somewhere or you can grab your
cell phone and send them a Text message.
Both work. They simply complement each other.
Don't discard any option, otherwise you'll limit your window of
opportunities.
The best way to find out what works for you is to try and
experiment.
If you step back, hesitate and keep thinking about it without taking
action, you'll miss opportunities.
www.vitalcoaching.com
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How to flirt with men
We kissed at a party N ow he hasn t called
back
There can be a dozen reasons a guy might not respond to an
invitation:
He can be busy with an ex
Worried about work or studies
Face a financial challenge
Work on a business project
Have someone else in mind
Etc.
For two people to connect, it has to be the right time and right
energy.
Sometimes you send him an email and the timing is not right for
him.
Sometimes the timing is right but something else urgent comes up.
Sometimes, his mind is simply busy with something else.
This does mean that you have no potential; it simply means that he
can't follow up on your invitation right now, whatever the reason.
Now, emails do sometimes get lost amongst layers of spam and
other junk. It is the truth.
If you already sent him an email, it is perfect.
Let at least a week in between. Just in case he was planning to
respond.
No demand, no pressure.
If you have his number, try a Text message or a short message on
his voice mail.
Sometimes, a guy won't answer an email but will happily respond to
a Text message.
Wonder why??? That's simply the way it is.
www.vitalcoaching.com
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How to flirt with men
If he does not respond the third time, send him one last message
(all that over a period of a month or so) and say something funny
like:
"I have a whole tribe of potential lovers calling for my attention... so
good to be free!"
Or
"So many men... So little time"
This will give him a clear signal: you have plenty of options.
Unless he makes a move, you'll soon be in the arms of another men
and the delicious party kiss he enjoyed so much will remain
suspended as a drop of desire in his mind. [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]
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you have to offer.
Trust your instincts and dare to play the game, fully!
www.vitalcoaching.com
- 88 -
How to flirt with men
My social circle is limited - How can I meet
new men?
The net works wonders.
I know dozens of people who found their dates on dating sites.
If you have any resistance for going that way, double check it!
Real people! Real lives!
It is exciting because you can get in touch with many interesting
people in no time.
You have great control. If you don't like someone, you just block
them from contacting you. It is easy and direct.
The public place thing (cafe, pub, party, etc) is a good option but
most of the times, you have too little choices and it can go very,
very slow.
With the net you can check people's profiles, get an idea of what
they want and see if you would be a good match.
Nowadays, dating without going online is like living without a cell
phone.
Dating sites do multiply your potential and results by 10 instantly.
Are there any risks online?
Tell you the truth, it is 10 times more risky to sit alone at a cafe
than to be online at home in front of your computer.
The net is safe! It is very safe compared with a public place.
It's like everywhere, you might come across a guy who behaves like
a jerk.
Now, if this happens at a party, this guy will be right in front of you.
On the net, it is much simpler: you delete their message and block
them from contacting you again in the future.
It is simple and direct.
www.vitalcoaching.com
- 89 -
How to flirt with men
If you didn't try, my advice is: register for a free profile and get a
taste of how it works and how it feels.
There are many places where you can get started. Simply make a
search online for dating sites . I n m ost of these sites, you can post
a profile for free and in some of them, you can even communicate
for free with other members straight away.
There are literally hundreds of them, so do some research and find
an option that you like.
The best is to step in and get familiar with the environment.
After a week or so, if you haven't been contacted, start sending
some light messages, winks, etc.
No need to force it. It happens naturally.
By the way, don t discard the "live options".
Expanding your social circle and going out a lot is great and does
work.
It is good however to try different things and see what works for
you.
Again, the difference between net and live is like the difference
between meeting in person or talking on the phone.
You can decide to meet a friend somewhere or you can grab your
cell phone and send them a Text message.
Both work. They simply complement each other.
Don't discard any option, otherwise you'll limit your window of
opportunities.
The best way to find out what works for you is to try and
experiment.
If you step back, hesitate and keep thinking about it without taking
action, you'll miss opportunities.
www.vitalcoaching.com
- 90 -
How to flirt with men
We kissed at a party N ow he hasn t called
back
There can be a dozen reasons a guy might not respond to an
invitation:
He can be busy with an ex
Worried about work or studies
Face a financial challenge
Work on a business project
Have someone else in mind
Etc.
For two people to connect, it has to be the right time and right
energy.
Sometimes you send him an email and the timing is not right for
him.
Sometimes the timing is right but something else urgent comes up.
Sometimes, his mind is simply busy with something else.
This does mean that you have no potential; it simply means that he
can't follow up on your invitation right now, whatever the reason.
Now, emails do sometimes get lost amongst layers of spam and
other junk. It is the truth.
If you already sent him an email, it is perfect.
Let at least a week in between. Just in case he was planning to
respond.
No demand, no pressure.
If you have his number, try a Text message or a short message on
his voice mail.
Sometimes, a guy won't answer an email but will happily respond to
a Text message.
Wonder why??? That's simply the way it is.
www.vitalcoaching.com
- 91 -
How to flirt with men
If he does not respond the third time, send him one last message
(all that over a period of a month or so) and say something funny
like:
"I have a whole tribe of potential lovers calling for my attention... so
good to be free!"
Or
"So many men... So little time"
This will give him a clear signal: you have plenty of options.
Unless he makes a move, you'll soon be in the arms of another men
and the delicious party kiss he enjoyed so much will remain
suspended as a drop of desire in his mind. [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]